Healers!
September 26, 2021
This is a reply to Kristine’s wonderful post It’s In The Sharing!, over at candidkay’s, on that part of us we have discovered in life and our way of sharing it. The wise lady always puts it so well 😀
Ah, the healer in us all. And we can only share what we have become, but those ‘bits’ are indeed treasures. Those who are in that moment will indeed open their hearts, and those not ready will just move on. Even friends will shake their heads at us and gradually/immediately disappear. It all comes down to what we project…if you project being a healed person, then most certainly it will attract those that wish to be there too. You become that healer and it takes a bit to rationalize, especially when you see it so clearly now you have awakened but they cannot. It is because they too must take your journey, and as you well know ‘we took a while’ to see it…a lifetime almost, because it isn’t easy, and it is built that way so we could appreciate the wisdom of it all when it arrives.
I had a friend that I gave all my pearly wisdom to…and it took almost 5 years for her to see. Simply because it wasn’t for her to understand yet, probably because she needed to experience other things first so that what I was explaining to her could be understood for ‘her’ journey later. And most certainly whenever we meet someone and interact it is ‘always’ a two way street, even if to just acknowledge something within ourselves from that connection, as I did in going through that time. And shoot, I even dare to think I have awakened sometimes…and then get sat on my backside from something I haven’t seen. Not that I would repeat doing (ahem), ‘old things’ of course 🤣
Plus sometimes it gets a bit lonely being awake, to share with another with like mind. But like any change it feels just a little more bigger and takes a while to ‘fit into’ what we now are. Remember, it has taken a lifetime to build it, it will take at least a few years to build something wonderful from the space we have now created. And no, once understood we can’t go back, it has changed us forever. But in truth we do realize what it has taken to be this free inside. And in fact, it is on the day that we also realize, having reached this awakening, that we don’t have to heal the world (simply because the world needs its chance to go through all of this and awaken too), and just share a little healing to those that do come our way.
But just sometimes you want to sit by the waves, a cool breeze on your face and eat an ice cream…the world can wait for an hour or so…simply because you can only give of what you are. Tired, angry or drained of love a good healer does not make…until we learn to understand our why’s and can see, truly see a very simple world but just buried in the avoidance of our fears. Once understood it is indeed a very calm and peaceful place…unless we have a little awakening to do…but that’s ok too, it is all done with a love like no other. Once we step through it will finally be seen and show us how it was indeed all worth every step we took ❤️ 🙏🏽
Thanks Kristine, I had an itch. Must have been from trying to take all those masks off 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
Mark, thank you! I’m late to the party. Apologies, but WP didn’t notify me of your post. Sigh. Technology issues. I so appreciate the shout-out and am glad that post touched you! And yes, you took the idea and ran it with beautifully, as always. Your story about your physician friend really resonates. People have to be ready for the sharing . . .
No worries Kristine, I just wish I could comment on your site to give you a heads up. Alas, we must chat around corners 😀
And your posts are indeed the words that touch a heart no matter how far away. Healing takes as long as it takes, and then because it has changed us we just give out that change. Sometimes it wobbles because the new shoe size takes a bit of getting used to, and sometimes it looks fantastic and draws every eye because they can feel it in us. Your path my friend seems to be ‘fitting’ well, and you are expressing it well in your posts. I can at least read them and absorb your healing dear lady, I’ll just have to admire from afar. Thank you for sharing ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
So love to read your healing wisdom mark… and inspired by our Kristine! Life is sure about our individual journey and how we experience it all… As I look back I can see myself on the outer spiral of a shell wandering slowly round and round, deeper and deeper I go into so much experience, so much to feel and make sense off… and really it never ends, it just becomes clearer and exciting❤️ So love our journeys together… healing ourselves and each other🥰🙏 sending you love mark❤️
We do indeed become a many varied healer as we go in deeper and deeper on that path dear lady, and its wisdom of love will heal us all. It is such a beautiful prism reflecting us all and allowing us to ‘see’ from wherever we are. Much love and light to you also xox 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽
Wow, Mark, just wow. I would not have understood on the level I do today what is written here even one month ago. For that which I am learning (among a whole lot of other) is that who we are today is the summation of what we have done in our lives and the circumstances as well. We have the ability to heal ourselves when we know what needs to be changed. It’s powerful!! Seeing something in my life, for example, that I know no longer serves me, I say to “it” I will not live with this for the rest of my life! And I mean it! I don’t know where the next step is, but suddenly and very shortly afterwards I see a change in the someone this matter effects and to my astonishment change just happens. Then I monitor how to think differently, act differently and feel differently. I am learning how to know when I am holding onto to something negative and the results are out of this world beautiful!!
Thank you for this post, thank you!!! All this incredibly challenging Inner Work is so worth the end result as I learn not only how to change myself, but all that is around me. How glorious!!! Much love to you! xo
Hey Amy, glad to hear your heart again dear lady, it has been a while. A time out is worth its weight in gold, especially when we are going through something and give that time to ourselves to resolve what it is. It is always in understanding the ‘why’ we react as we do to those circumstances that upset us. See that and it just dissolves because it no longer has meaning to us. It is a challenging path or we wouldn’t give it any appreciation for what we have endured to find us. It’s like that story of being given money for nothing, we spend it willy nilly on everything…but…if we have to work for it then we think about it and ask ourselves is this purchase worth it, after what effort we have put into it before parting with our money. And most certainly yes to the rebuild of changing all that we were to what we want to become. Sounds like you’ve had a big self healing so the world is yours…which direction is all yours now, no longer being guided by those fears that stand sentry on so many paths. Well done, take a bow and be free. Much love to you and yours Amy and I hope your other half and fur babies are doing well…oh, and Karma too xox 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋 😂 🤣
“It is always in understanding the ‘why’ we react as we do to those circumstances that upset us. See that and it just dissolves because it no longer has meaning to us.”
OMGOSH, Mark, this is exactly what I am experiencing. In releasing not only the emotional but the physical anchor where that emotion attached, we free ourselves and from there, it’s like magic!! Patterns dissolve, actions cease, and so much more. God has had me digging deeply to get to the root cause (SO not easy!) and now just now understand I can heal myself. We have everything we require to do so and to finally get it, that is major! I have found fears beneath thoughts, thoughts beneath fears, and to untangle the unholy mess, you have to stay with it until that pearl is found, that pearl that when attained gives understanding. How sweet! I’m still going through these processes I’ll have you know so when God knocked on my door and said, “it’s time” I was taken aback and yet here I am.
You sound wonderful and have yourself come a long ways since last we spoke. I say good for you!! This Journey is so difficult ….. it’s like trying to dig through a mountain with a teaspoon. Right? LOL And as for Karma …. her dreams are coming true. What I pictured for her as in large pasture with grass is being constructed. She is in horse heaven right now!! xo
Hey, how come you got a teaspoon? I only got a toothpick! 🤣 And go Karma…his and ours 😂 xox 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
LOL Too funny you are, Mark. I’ll stop grumbling about my teaspoon. A toothpick. Now that is a sorry state of affairs.
But it is getting easier and easier to dig dear lady xox 😂 🤣
“And in fact, it is on the day that we also realize, having reached this awakening, that we don’t have to heal the world (simply because the world needs its chance to go through all of this and awaken too), and just share a little healing to those that do come our way.”
We don’t need to heal the whole world bit just share what we know with the people who do com our way – that’s my vision too! In truth I think we can connect only with a few who really relate to our experiences!
Others may find encouragement and be able to slowly make changes in their lives without even realizing the sources of their information because they may read many peoples stories and advice!
Exactly dear lady, I think we ‘bump’ into just what we need as we need it. It may not be what we want but it will most certainly be what our hearts need. This world can be such a painful place, but it is through that that we find us. That empathy and compassion that cannot be created but by experiencing all that we have. Thank you for sharing Tamara. And just a side note, I still can’t comment at your blog, as I still can’t on many others. Maybe I was a bad boy in a previous life 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋 😂 🤣
Mark I’m sorry to hear of you difficulties re being able to comment! I’ve triple checked snd don’t see anything blocking it but that doesn’t mean there isn’t something I don’t know about!
Totally relate and connect with what you said re finding what we need at the time we need it… I think the universe is marvelous that way, it gives us things, both difficulties and blessings at the time in our lives that we need to process it through! The troubles may be difficult to accept but often the grinding and the polishing we receive are what we need to pull lessons to be able to move to our next phase.
I don’t think it is anything on our sites dear lady, WordPress’s software is having a hissy fit somewhere as there are way too many people all having the same problem. Keep polishing your heart dear lady, some may be done with a rough cloth but towards the end it is a lot smoother and the glow will be lit perfectly 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
Beautifully said!! 🌸🌼🌸🌼🌸
This is beautiful, Mark. We all have a journey. The road to healing and awakening is traveled in many different ways. Some choose to veer off on different paths. It’s such a wonderful place to be when truth sets you free and your heart no longer judges the things around you. You have enough peace to be still. And enough trust to move in the spoken directions because the clutter in your mind and spirit have been removed. My joints still ache; but my soul is soothed. I’m so glad to see you, friend! Thank you for inspiring us all. 💛
And thank you for sharing your journey Karla, it is in those many reflections from others that we see ourselves and change, gradually becoming something wonderful as we ‘feel’ the rightness in each step we take. Yes, it is slow, but anything not worked for would hold no appreciation, have no worth and leave us bare. That inner love must be understood or like a child in a rocket we would be lost and just hurtling through space. And in all our experiences a healer is born to share their journey, as we do in all that we experience. We are a sharing soul wanting to be something in that pathway that we tread, questioning everything and constantly changing as we understand more and more. And somewhere ‘out there’ is a destination…if eternity has one 😀. Mind you, in what I was shown of death (up on the menu at the top…’The Death’), that place that I briefly touched was such an incredible place…everything just was…there wasn’t any need of anything, it was perfect in just being…not a second ticking anywhere, I felt outside of time and its learning journey and in a place of such love and peace. If that is the destination then ‘let it be’ 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
Mark, thank you as well for your authenticity and open heart. I can imagine the experience you had~mine was very brief~and in that time I experienced the unexplainable. And a peace I couldn’t describe to others. And when I tried to conform to the confinement of common communication in relationships, they failed ~for there wasn’t a common breakthrough. Your words are always heartfelt and wise. “Let it be”….just beautiful. Thank you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻💛🤗
Ah dear lady, another soul who has ‘touched’ beyond down here. And you are right, putting words into that experience is just beyond the human language, it goes somewhere that is in us to understand individually but just cannot be expressed in a way that we feel doesn’t do it justice. But that is it’s answer, to ‘know’ we have indeed been given a gift beyond us now…but for the future when we step beyond our journey and finally understand unconditional because of it. And yes, those moments show us…us…to be that beauty within that touches us all…and yes, ‘let it be’ ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
The quietness of listening, and just being present is a great way of sharing and helping someone to heal. xo
That it is Michele, in fact I would say it is 90% of a healers arsenal. To hear, feel and understand is most of any healing, only then can we ‘assist’ in a direction, whether that is physical (doing hands on or Reiki etc), or spiritual guidance. In fact there have been times where words were not needed, just a hug or a touch can speak more words than anything else. Thank you for sharing dear lady, your posts guide well and a healing for many ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
We all have the capacity to heal and be healed. The trick is learning how to share that knowledge. Well written post Mark.
Thank you kind lady, and we do indeed have that capacity. Like many mirrors dancing around the fire that this world is, we reflect that light out to others so that they can see what’s possible in their hearts 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
I love this, Mark. We all develop and we all are at different stages of awareness. It also doesn’t necessarily mean that one is further than the other but simply at a different spot. But however, we are meeting those people that fit our current stage and while we change our connections change too. Either in their quality or in the persons themselves. That’s so amazing and understanding it helps to accept everybody’s development, letting be, and letting go.
And of course, we always need to be and enjoy who we are. Having an icecream and just be is part of it – an important one, in my opinion. Wonderful post. Mark!
Thank you Erika, when my moment came in this journey the one thing that left me totally incredulous was to see that each and every one of us will indeed attract exactly what we need to guide us ever inward. Billions of us. And the only conclusion I can come to is that love is perfect, and like all those other emotions we must experience, it will ever guide us to that unconditional within us. This world is as conditional as you can get it and a hard battlefield, but in facing it we will build that empathy and compassion to eventually heal ourselves and ‘know’ what love truly means. Thank you for sharing dear lady…and very glad to have been guided by and to you 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
Amazing words again, Mark! That is exactly the insight we all need to find. Everything is meant to take us back to unconditionality. Because then – and only then -we are truly free. And that is why we need the conditional world. Because it leads us to that point by the perfect orchstration of meetings, connections, and happenings all over over the planet. Becaus we all are connected in this unconditional love.
Thank you and you know that this is mutual 💖
It is indeed an amazing journey dear lady, may you trip, stumble and eat many ice creams 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋
Ah, yes! It is all worth the ice cream 😂
Of course! 😂 🤣
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Waves, a cool breeze and ice cream sounds very therapeutic to me. 😊 …”just share a little healing to those that do come our way” — amen!! Abundant blessing upon you, my friend. 🙏❤️🙏
And blessings upon you too dear lady. Those ice creams times are occasionally needed or we would be a sad lot for sure 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽