I was answering a comment to a post by Danielle, about those fears we go through and their impact. So in doing so Spirit nudged me to express it here as a post…
Going through our fears are what happens to us all, and on our own individual paths they can be a very painful thing to go through. But it is different for everyone, and as an example, its equivalent is when you see someone scared to death of a spider but many other would think nothing of it. This is the same in all our fears…born from many different paths, and, we will attract the very thing that is the most painful for us individually to face…or it would lose its impact, lessen its ability to make us face ourselves and go through something to break those barriers we build.
And this is why we are told to never judge another, simply because we cannot truly understand another’s path because it has a very different meaning for us because of our own experiences and environment so we cannot truthfully understand it. There may be many similarities but our differing experiences give us the strength, or not, to face them.
The only way we can truly understand ourselves, or others, is this…that fear we have for ourselves, that is what the other is feeling…regardless of its origins. All we have to do is remember how we felt in going through our fear, and give that compassion and empathy to another in their time of trouble.
We are all being asked to find that love inside us, whatever it takes to see our truth…His truth to find that unconditional love. And we are doing well, regardless of our journey, as whatever it is we face it is building that compassion, empathy and love inside us all. And in the end…it is the only thing we take back with us…what we have found in our own hearts in experiencing and going through it all ❤️🙏🏽